Good relationships don't happen by accident.
Understand your patterns, strengthen how you communicate, and fix the thing underneath the argument you keep having — before it becomes the reason.
About 4 minutes. No account needed to start.
- About 4 minutes
- No account needed to start
- Private by default
Overall RQ
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An illustrative profile. Yours is built from your own answers in about four minutes.
If any of this is familiar
- The same argument keeps coming back wearing different clothes
- You've started editing what you say to avoid the reaction
- Things are fine, but fine isn't what you signed up for
- One of you withdraws, the other pursues, and it never resolves
- Intimacy has quietly become a subject you both avoid
- You'd rather fix this now than explain it to someone later
None of that means anything is wrong with you. It means there’s a pattern, and patterns can be described.
What you get, free
Four minutes of honest questions, then something you can use.
What's actually driving it
Recurring conflict is rarely about its stated subject. We'll find yours.
Your RQ profile
Where you're strong, where you're not, and which one is costing you most.
A plan you'll actually do
Daily steps of two to ten minutes, sized to the time you really have.
About 4 minutes · No account needed to start
Before you tell us anything difficult
Private by default
Your answers are encrypted, never sold, and never sent to advertising platforms. Analytics see which step you were on, never what you said.
No streaks, no guilt
Missing a day isn't a moral failure. There's no flame to lose and nothing to apologise to your phone for.
We won't tell you to leave
Or to stay. An app is not equipped to make that call, and any product that pretends otherwise is selling certainty it doesn't have.
Abuse isn't a communication problem
If your answers suggest you may not be safe, we stop the assessment and point you toward people trained for it. We don't optimise around it.
Questions people ask first
It's a RelationQ framework, not a validated clinical instrument, and it isn't an IQ equivalent. It's a structured, consistent way of turning how you describe your own relating into something you can see and track. That's useful — but we won't dress it up as something it isn't.
No. RelationQ works entirely from your side, because the part of a relationship you can actually change is your own. Partner features are on the roadmap, not a requirement.
No. RelationQ is an educational and self-reflection tool. It isn't medical, psychological, legal or emergency care, and it doesn't diagnose anything. It sits well alongside therapy and doesn't replace it.
The assessment and your initial profile are free. Premium unlocks your full RQ profile, the complete plan, exercises and progress tracking, on a 3, 6 or 12-month subscription — with the price per month, the total charged and the renewal date shown before you pay.
It's stored against an anonymous session so you can close the tab and come back. It's never sold, never used for advertising, and you can ask us to delete all of it.
Yes — arguably more so. The time between relationships is the only period you can examine your patterns without simultaneously managing someone else's reaction to them.
Good relationships don't happen by accident.
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